It’s a national obsession – but just what are the secrets behind the perfect afternoon tea, asks bestselling Downton author and biscuit dunker, Jessica Fellowes

Are your neighbours prone to blasting out loud music on a fine day? Thomas Blaikie advises

Do some of your ‘friends’ only contact you when they want something, asks Thomas Blaikie

Tired of being addressed as ‘you guys’? Thomas Blaikie explains how to address someone

When unwanted guests tag along to a private gathering, is there a discreet way to see them off ? Thomas Blaikie advises

Friendly favours can be a fickle business. Thomas Blaikie advises on how to offer – and accept – them

What is confidential and what isn’t? Thomas Blaikie tackles the tricky issue of passing on your friend’s secrets

Should we still be allowed to tell o
ff other people’s children? Thomas Blaikie advises confused adults everywhere

Does your friend love her pet more than she loves you? Thomas Blaikie advises on a very English dilemma

…or the extraordinary story of how women finally got served in Britain’s restaurants